
The Cost of Discipleship - Cheap Grace vs. Costly Grace: The top panel depicts cheap grace—a figure comfortable in a gilded cage, surrounded by wealth and luxury, with labels showing "Forgiveness without Repentance," "Baptism without Discipline," "Communion without Confession." The bottom panel shows costly grace—a man carrying his cross up a difficult path, with imperatives "Take up your cross daily," "Deny yourself," "Follow me," "Radical obedience," and "Continuous dying to self." The banner at the bottom declares Bonhoeffer's famous words: "When Christ calls a man, he bids him come to die"—but this is also his life.
The Cost of Discipleship is Bonhoeffer's central teaching: following Jesus demands total sacrifice, radical obedience, and willingness to suffer—not comfortable belief without transformation.
Core Contrast:
Cheap Grace
Grace that forgives sin without demanding repentance or life change. It says "God loves you, so relax. You don't have to change or sacrifice anything."
Costly Grace
Grace that is freely given but demands a response: obedience, discipleship, sacrifice, and action. It says "God's grace is priceless, so be willing to give up everything to follow Jesus."
The Central Claim:
"When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die"
Not necessarily physical death, but death to self-will, to comfort, to safety, to worldly attachments.
Key Elements:
By the 1930s, Bonhoeffer saw the Church had become comfortable with "cheap grace"—a distortion of the Gospel message.
What Cheap Grace Looks Like:
The Result:
Bonhoeffer's famous line: "Cheap grace has been the downfall of more Christians than anything else"
Costly grace is grace that is freely given by God but demands a costly response from the believer: total surrender, obedience, discipline, and willingness to suffer.
Why It's Called "Costly":
Bonhoeffer's Formula:
"Only the believer is obedient, and only those who are obedient believe."
What This Means:
The Key Biblical Image:
Mark 8:34-35: "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me".
What the Cross Means:
The cross is not chosen suffering (self-imposed hardship). Rather, it is the suffering that comes as a natural consequence of following Christ in a hostile world.
Bonhoeffer teaches that Jesus says "every Christian has his own cross waiting for him, a cross destined and appointed by God".
Examples of Taking Up the Cross:
"When Christ Calls a Man, He Bids Him Come and Die":
The Paradox:
Obedience as Love:
For Bonhoeffer, love is expressed through obedience. It is not sentimental feeling but concrete, sacrificial action.
Example: Bonhoeffer's Own Life:
The Cost of Obedience:
Bonhoeffer believed that living a godly life inevitably leads to persecution:
2 Timothy 3:12: "Anyone who wants to live a godly life will be persecuted"
"The world cannot live side-by-side with us because what we say and do, whether we intend it to or not, is perceived by the world as condemnation on them"
This is Not Pessimism:
It is realistic Christianity. Bonhoeffer is not saying "wallow in suffering," but rather: expect it, prepare for it, and embrace it as part of following Christ.
Bonhoeffer's Bold Claim:
Suffering is not an accident of the Christian life or a punishment for sin. It is a necessary component of discipleship.
Why Suffering is Central:
Spiritual Discipline as Sacrifice:
The Specific Cost for Bonhoeffer:
His theology of suffering was not abstract:
Yet his letters from prison show he maintained peace and faith, embodying his own teaching about costly grace.
For Bonhoeffer, authentic discipleship is living out the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7).
What the Sermon Demands:
The Problem with Cheap Grace:
Many Christians treat the Sermon on the Mount as "counsels of perfection" that are optional or for a spiritual elite.
Bonhoeffer's Claim:
These are not optional; they are the very heart of Christian ethics.
Practical Implications:
Baptism as the Model:
Bonhoeffer taught that baptism symbolizes the Christian life: death (in the water) and resurrection (rising from the water).
Discipleship as Continuous Pattern:
Quote:
"The cross is not the terrible end to an otherwise god-fearing and happy life, but it meets us at the beginning of our communion with Christ."
This means:
The Historical Context:
Many German churches preached cheap grace while the Nazis committed genocide.
The False Doctrine:
Bonhoeffer's Response:
His life and death were a living sermon against cheap grace.
Quote 1 (Cheap Grace vs. Costly Grace):
"Cheap grace is the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance, baptism without church discipline, Communion without confession, absolution without contrition. Cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate. Costly grace is the treasure hidden in the field; for the sake of it a man will gladly go and sell all that he has. Costly grace is the call of Jesus Christ at which the disciple leaves his nets and follows him."
— Dietrich Bonhoeffer, The Cost of Discipleship (1937)
Context: This is the foundational distinction of Bonhoeffer's entire theology. It shows why cheap grace is spiritually destructive and why costly grace is the authentic gospel.
Quote 2 (The Demand of Discipleship):
"When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die. It may be a death like that of the first disciples who had to leave home and work to follow him, or it may be a death like Luther's, who had to leave the monastery and go out into the world. But it is the same death every time—death in Jesus Christ, the death of the old man at his call. Jesus' summons to the rich young man was calling him to die, because only the man who is dead to his own will can follow Christ. Every command of Jesus is a call to die, with all our affections and lusts."
— Dietrich Bonhoeffer, The Cost of Discipleship
Context: This captures Bonhoeffer's understanding of discipleship as radical death to self and willingness to suffer—not as punishment, but as the necessary response to encountering Christ.
| Concept | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Cheap Grace | Grace without repentance, transformation, or obedience; comfortable but spiritually empty |
| Costly Grace | Grace freely given by God but demanding total surrender, obedience, and sacrifice from the believer |
| Taking Up the Cross | Accepting the suffering and rejection that comes from faithful discipleship |
| Daily Dying to Self | Continuous, daily choice to deny selfish desires and obey God's will |
| Radical Obedience | Complete, unconditional surrender to God's will; obedience even when costly |
| Suffering as Discipleship | Suffering is not accidental but central to following Christ |
| The Sermon on the Mount | Jesus's ethical demands (love enemies, serve poor, forgive) are the heart of discipleship |
| Death and Resurrection | The pattern of continuous dying to self and rising to Christ's life |
| Obedience is Faith | True faith is inseparable from obedient action; faith is never passive |